I decided to brave it and take both kids to church. Luckily Carrie decided to go too so I wasn't alone. We went to 8:00 mass which is also the all-school mass and I think that really helped things. Owen was somewhat distracted by all of the kids and it was noisier than Sunday mass so his questions and chatting was as noticeable. Owen was very excited about getting his ashes and talked about and showed them to everyone the rest of the day.
Barely there because he was pointing them out so much, but you get the idea: